tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post113321112071782926..comments2023-10-31T17:46:14.423+02:00Comments on Lilli's corner: أمام المرآةUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1134162959866677032005-12-09T23:15:00.000+02:002005-12-09T23:15:00.000+02:00howa lama koll el setat tatamarrad 3ala dorha! yeb...howa lama koll el setat tatamarrad 3ala dorha! yeb2a meen 7ateb2a omm w terabbi el ageyal el gedeeda? akeed mesh asdi en hadaf 7ayat el sett el kans wel mas7! ana mesh men el7aramlek.. i just used it as a symbol, maybe u didn't like my symbol, but that never means en el bent el 3asreya lazem testargel!<BR/>welli bet2ool keda, akeed fe 7ad tani beye3melaha el chores dee, da mesh 3eeb, el 3eeb en da yeb2a me7war w hadaf 7ayat el sett!!<BR/>and about the definition of femenininty: mesh 3arfa a2ool eh 3'er enaha the qualities that makes a woman different from a man, which will include being more emotional than men 4 example...i'm talking about the majority here so don't tell me about Mrs. Tatcher 4ex :-D there are facts we can't deny.<BR/>This is my point of view, u might agree or disagree, i might not be expressing it well, but kol wa7ed w qodrato :)Lillihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11593975978719464235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1134156467664353992005-12-09T21:27:00.000+02:002005-12-09T21:27:00.000+02:00NO lil: what caught my attention is the fact that ...NO lil: what caught my attention is the fact that the woman in the story sees that going back to being "the eternal female" means: cooking and changing diapers, well, household chores that's to say, and I cannot make the connection between :"the eternal female" and household chores, In addition, she sees the liberation from a social role that compels her to look like a Barbie in embracing the role that makes here a house maid, sorry, I don't get it, It seems I have a low IQ<BR/><BR/>"The woman that denies her femininty is lacking self confidence.."<BR/><BR/>I'll ask you the question I'm asking everybody these days:<BR/><BR/>"What exactly is femininty? and what does it have to do with changing diapers and cooking and cleaning?"سؤراطةhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13006146437254185172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133628558630128722005-12-03T18:49:00.000+02:002005-12-03T18:49:00.000+02:00ya bent el 7ala ana makontesh ba2oul keda sadda2in...ya bent el 7ala ana makontesh ba2oul keda sadda2iny :)))<BR/>ana ba2oul enn dah elly 3agabny (el wa2fa)we khallany afakkar fy ba2y el 7agat (el personal legend el 7agat dyh) bass... makontesh bashra7 elly enty katbah la2ennek katbah 7elw awy awy we bayen awy awy.. (wel gholoud matloub geddan fyl fann en kan be7odoud zay elly enty 3amlah dah)<BR/><BR/>bass (point finale)Tony Habibhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06700682423813655722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133475728979481532005-12-02T00:22:00.000+02:002005-12-02T00:22:00.000+02:00no no .. the mirror here points to a very private ...no no .. the mirror here points to a very private and sensual moment for that woman, she'd been the successful working have-it-all woman all day, and this is her private moment to appreciate her femininity... that's all.. the story's not about "fulfilling ur life purpose or getting closer to ur personal legend" :))Lillihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11593975978719464235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133463637036199312005-12-01T21:00:00.000+02:002005-12-01T21:00:00.000+02:001. "u" doesn't refer to you "lili" it refers to an...1. "u" doesn't refer to you "lili" it refers to anyone<BR/>2. all what i meant is that u pointed on the idea of the "mirror" ,coz it never lies, and it's z only time u really look at urself... and it makes u know what u r actually doing in ur life.. is it what u really want/should do or not...<BR/>(sorry for long comment)Tony Habibhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06700682423813655722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133450372964533472005-12-01T17:19:00.000+02:002005-12-01T17:19:00.000+02:00Please anyone who do not understand the story and ...Please anyone who do not understand the story and the point it's negociating, save urself the time of writing a ridiculous comment. I have deleted one of those comments by an anonymous.<BR/>I've talked about Women rights and social justice a long time back since secondary school maslan... but women rights never said that women should become men, and being a mother is an honour for a woman. I said the story talked about 1 aspect of this woman's life.<BR/><BR/>It is very narrow minded to think that a successful woman would despise her role of being a female & mother. The woman that denies her femininty is lacking self confidence..<BR/><BR/>And finally i just want to mention that i'm a Software engineer, i can speak 3 languages other than Arabic, have many social & volunteering activities, and yet i like cooking, and love to become a wife & mother. I am never ashamed of being a woman.Lillihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11593975978719464235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133386145178875482005-11-30T23:29:00.000+02:002005-11-30T23:29:00.000+02:00The literature definition of a short story is that...The literature definition of a short story is that it narrates a small incident, that begins and ends within the story, and it must deal with one aspect of the situation, so u cannot put everything thr, this story narrates a 10 min. incident of a working woman's life, it doesn't describe all of her aspects as a woman, employee, wife & mother.. so do not judge anything other than what's mentioned!<BR/><BR/>toni, i didn't understand ur comment actually<BR/><BR/>socrates, the ONLY word that took ur attention is diapers, not her love for her family and kids, not her willingness to pay double effort out & in side her home to please herself & her family....Lillihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11593975978719464235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133369878062441542005-11-30T18:57:00.000+02:002005-11-30T18:57:00.000+02:00"بمجرد تغيير كل ما ترتديه وتفعله خارج منزلها سوف ت..."بمجرد تغيير كل ما ترتديه وتفعله خارج منزلها سوف تعود تلك المرأة الأزلية، التى تعشق البيت وأسرتها الصغيرة، تحب الطبخ والتنظيف وتغيير الحفاضات"، <BR/><BR/>الحفاظات اختراع حديث، لا أعتقد أن "المرأة الأزلية" كانت تحب تغييرها، بحكم إنها لم تكن تعرفها أصلاً، وأجد صعوبة شديدة في أن أفهم سبب "عشق" أي انسان لتغيير حفاظات كريهة الرائحة، اللهم إلا إذا كانت المرأة كما قال المرحوم الشعراوي: "خلقها الله مخلوقاً لا يقرف، تغير الكافولة للعيل وبعدين تقوم تكمل أكل"سؤراطةhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13006146437254185172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133366135681960032005-11-30T17:55:00.000+02:002005-11-30T17:55:00.000+02:00i thought it's all about the mirror! does it tell ...i thought it's all about the mirror! does it tell u that what u do for living is fulfilling ur life purpose?!! is helping u get closer to ur personal legend?!! many thx for reminding me to check the mirror ;)Tony Habibhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06700682423813655722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133257499792768082005-11-29T11:44:00.000+02:002005-11-29T11:44:00.000+02:00:))))انتوا فين من زمان! كان دايماً نفسى أقرا تعليق...:))))<BR/>انتوا فين من زمان! كان دايماً نفسى أقرا تعليق واحد يوحد ربنا من بنوته<BR/>المهم حمدالله على السلامة<BR/>بالنسبه لموضوع البس ده، كتير الواحده فعلاً تلبس حاجه عشان هى موضه، أكيد دا مش دايماً ومش كل الناس وبأحترم جداً البنت والست اللى تلبس بمزاجها هى، بس لو واحدة مثلاً شغلها ليه علاقة بالعملاء، بيبقى فيه اسلوب معين متوقع منها تلبسه<BR/>ومثلاً لما طلعت موضة البوت أبو بوز رفيع دى، ما فى ست فيكى يا مصر إلا ولبسته<BR/>هى مش دى القضية قوى، بس حبيت أقول أن كل ست جواها الأنوثة حتى لو بتفتقدها وقت الشغل لكن فى حياتها الشخصية ماتقدرش تنساها أبداًLillihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11593975978719464235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133256084857696342005-11-29T11:21:00.001+02:002005-11-29T11:21:00.001+02:00كلام جميلرغم اني مش موافقه على ان في اي شئ ممكن يف...كلام جميل<BR/>رغم اني مش موافقه على ان في اي شئ ممكن يفرض اسلوب لبس او اسلوب حياه على المراه دي في الاخر مساله اختيارAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16643515.post-1133256082307672702005-11-29T11:21:00.000+02:002005-11-29T11:21:00.000+02:00مفيش أحلى من إن الواحد يبقى على طبيعته :)مفيش أحلى من إن الواحد يبقى على طبيعته :)Eman Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10088327194379999772noreply@blogger.com